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La vidéo dure 00:20:32 secondes et porte le titre #MeToo and feminists’ male chastity crusade – Part 2, fournis par l’auteur. La description détaillée est la suivante :« Bettina Arndt talks to Karen Straughan about the century-old feminist campaign to crush male sexuality.
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Bettina Arndt on men in trouble over sex:
http://www.bettinaarndt.com.au/wp-content/uploads/men-in-trouble-over-sex.pdf
Hard dogs to keep on the porch:
http://www.bettinaarndt.com.au/wp-content/uploads/aus17jan2015ac015.pdf
Read the first chapter of her book on sexual desire, The Sex Diaries:
http://www.bettinaarndt.com.au/media-resources/books/the-sex-diaries/
Read the first chapter of her book on male sexuality, What Men Want:
http://www.bettinaarndt.com.au/media-resources/books/what-men-want/
Sexual harassment witch hunt:
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Plonger dans les origines historiques et culturelles de la chasteté.
La chasteté est profondément ancrée dans diverses traditions religieuses et culturelles. La chasteté, dans le christianisme, est souvent connectée au vœu de continence des prêtres et religieux. L’islam, les Églises catholique et orthodoxe prônent la chasteté comme une vertu essentielle, non seulement pour les religieux mais aussi pour les laïcs, en particulier avant le mariage. Dans l’Antiquité, la chasteté était un moyen reconnu pour garantir l’intégrité personnelle et la pureté morale. La chasteté, donc, transcende les âges et les cultures, restant une vertu vénérée et respectée.
Explorer la chasteté à travers une perspective contemporaine. Décrypter la chasteté selon les critères actuels.
En substance, la chasteté est la régulation de soi-même dans le domaine sexuel. Ce n’est pas simplement abstinence, mais un contrôle conscient des désirs sexuels selon des valeurs morales. Dans le monde contemporain, la chasteté implique non seulement la suppression des désirs, mais aussi leur redirection vers des buts supérieurs, tels que le respect de soi et des autres. Dans le monde moderne, être chaste ne veut pas dire se priver du plaisir, mais plutôt vivre sa sexualité en faisant des choix conscients.
La chasteté apporte des avantages notables pour le bien-être personnel et moral. Analyser l’impact de la chasteté sur le bien-être personnel et moral.
La chasteté pratiquée avec attention a une influence majeure sur le bien-être personnel. Elle engendre une meilleure maîtrise de soi, une clarté mentale renforcée, et une paix intérieure découlant du respect des croyances personnelles. Cultiver la chasteté permet de développer une relation plus équilibrée avec son corps et ses désirs. La chasteté libère l’individu des pulsions et des pressions sociales liées à la sexualité, offrant ainsi une plus grande liberté. Elle apporte également un sens profond de pureté morale, qui renforce la dignité et l’estime de soi. Les bienfaits psychologiques de la chasteté sont particulièrement notables. La chasteté offre aux individus une plus grande confiance en eux et une meilleure préparation pour surmonter les défis.
La chasteté est étroitement liée à la spiritualité.
La chasteté est fréquemment associée à la spiritualité. Dans le christianisme et d’autres religions, la chasteté est une manière de se rapprocher de Dieu. Contrôler ses désirs sexuels aide à focaliser plus d’énergie sur le bien-être personnel. Ainsi, la chasteté est interprétée comme une offrande de soi et un acte de vénération de Dieu. La chasteté est perçue comme un choix pour élever l’âme et non comme une simple privation. Chaque tradition religieuse a sa propre approche de la chasteté. Pour le christianisme catholique, la chasteté est une vertu fondamentale pour les prêtres. La chasteté est hautement valorisée dans l’islam, avec des normes strictes régissant la sexualité. Dans l’hindouisme et le bouddhisme, la chasteté est souvent utilisée par les ascètes pour atteindre un état d’illumination. Ainsi, la chasteté dépasse les frontières religieuses, unissant les croyants dans une quête commune.
Évaluer les effets de la chasteté sur les relations interpersonnelles et familiales.
Les relations interpersonnelles bénéficient également de la chasteté. Une cage de chasteté permet à un homme de raviver ses capacités de séduction et de modifier son comportement avec ses partenaires. L’acte bénéficie de capacités physiques et sexuelles plus fortes dues à leur sollicitation réduite. La chasteté peut être observée en toute discrétion, sans divulguer ce choix à ses partenaires. La chasteté peut solidifier les relations entre les conjoints dans le mariage en encourageant un amour plus sincère, déconnecté du plaisir physique.
Intégrer la chasteté dans sa routine quotidienne.
Les hommes souhaitant adopter la chasteté peuvent mettre en place diverses stratégies. Il est crucial de débuter par une introspection approfondie pour saisir ses propres motivations et valeurs. Ensuite, il peut être utile d’éviter les situations susceptibles de provoquer des désirs incontrôlés, telles que la consommation de contenus sexuels. Il est important de trouver un mentor ou un groupe de soutien ayant des convictions similaires pour rester sur la voie. Dans une société saturée par la sexualité, pratiquer la chasteté peut présenter des difficultés. Les défis incluent la pression sociale et les tentations incessantes. Pour réussir à surmonter ces défis, une discipline personnelle stricte est nécessaire. En cas de difficulté, il est important de garder le moral et de recommencer avec une volonté renouvelée. La chasteté est un voyage de patience et persévérance, pas une perfection à atteindre. La chasteté, lorsqu’elle est intégrée dans la vie d’un homme, peut conduire à une liberté plus grande, une meilleure maîtrise de soi et un épanouissement spirituel profond. La chasteté, malgré son aspect parfois contraignant dans une culture qui privilégie la sexualité, permet de vivre une vie plus authentique, en accord avec ses valeurs et sa foi.
La chasteté : Une qualité à explorer de nouveau dans notre époque actuelle.
La chasteté apparaît comme une vertu taboue dans la société contemporaine. Cependant, pour ceux qui l’adoptent, elle peut conduire à une plus grande paix intérieure, à des relations renforcées et à une connexion spirituelle plus profonde. Dans le passé, la chasteté était davantage acceptée et débattue.Cet articlesous divers angles. En explorant divers aspects de la chasteté, cet article offre aux hommes les ressources pour comprendre et appliquer cette vertu dans leur quotidien.
Foire aux Questions (FAQ) concernant la Chasteté.
La chasteté est-elle uniquement pour les personnes de foi ? Non, la chasteté est une vertu qui peut être pratiquée par tout le monde, pas seulement les religieux. Quelle est la distinction entre chasteté et abstinence ? L’abstinence se limite à la promesse de ne pas avoir de relations sexuelles. Contrairement à l’abstinence, la chasteté peut inclure le port d’un dispositif comme une ceinture ou une cage, et s’inscrit dans une approche de développement personnel. Comment la chasteté se manifeste-t-elle dans les relations matrimoniales ? Au sein du mariage, la chasteté est souvent une question partagée ; les partenaires discutent généralement des démarches et des objectifs. Pourquoi la chasteté est-elle si valorisée par l’Église ? Pour l’Église, la chasteté est une vertu clé pour mener une vie conforme aux enseignements chrétiens. De quelle manière la chasteté favorise-t-elle l’épanouissement personnel ? La chasteté permet de mieux se maîtriser, de clarifier ses pensées et de trouver une paix intérieure, contribuant ainsi à l’épanouissement personnel.
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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: [Music] it’s very encouraging I think to see more prominent people speaking out yes even even after watching other people be torn to pieces for doing so yeah I know Bangladesh waters has bought in which is good but I mean across the world we’re finding more people saying come on it was not good for women and the bottom line is why would any man who had a choice employ a woman why would men running businesses what to have women in the workforce well I wouldn’t why would you dare mix a lot you know you’d what you would have to segregate them cuz they’re dangerous to the men in your workplace when I went to my my my guy works at sort of an industrial firm and it’s a small firm it’s only like 40 employees or something like that so they don’t have to essentially have they don’t they don’t have any requirements non-discrimination requirements on them they’re too small to be held to those standards and that’s because there are not enough other employees to subsidize women when they go on maternity leave and things like that but I’m attending this Christmas party and these guys are like they are hardcore like foul-mouthed dirty you know and just body and banter and I’m standing in an office I like all of you all their girlfriends and wives were there right so I’m supposed to be over with the women and and instead I’m standing in this office and we’re just we’re saying the most outrageous things to each other and just I know loving laughing it like cuz it was that is that is where I’m comfortable is is in that atmosphere and that atmosphere is apparently I mean they used to be a little bit put off when I would kind of go in there and start joking around because they’re like am I allowed to actually talk this way in front of a woman yeah but you know like over time they’ve gotten used to me and they know how to take me now and they know I’m not gonna be offended by anything that comes out of their mouths I mean and some of the things that they do I was giving one of my guys co-workers [ __ ] because he sends he’s he sends him things gifts and memes and photos and little videos and stuff on on over the phone that are absolutely you know some of them it’s like and then my guy will show me Chris just sent me this right and I’m like oh god why would you show me that I can’t unsee that I can never unsee that know that that’s that that image is gonna be in my head on my deathbed right as I as I breathe my last breath right I’m seeing a a trans woman with a gigantic penis and really nice boobs brushing her teeth with with her thing wagging back and forth right and that’s all I’m gonna see right yeah and and it’s like so I mean but it’s like they do this stuff all the time and it’s like I’m comfortable with that I’m happy with that like I love that kind of thing um and that’s the point there are women who love that kind of thing and we are not allowed to exist we’re not allowed to be acknowledged in any shape or form and we’re these damaged neurotic psychologically fragile sexually repressed women are ruling and determining how our workplaces should be conducted yeah and the fun many women have of bit of that sort of banter and stuff going on in the workplace it’s totally gone oh yeah and so we have to start state I just think we need a real uprising of sensible people saying enough yeah we want bands are we want the sexual spark we don’t want to lose that when we’re together in in workplaces or in other situations yeah and why on earth should we allow the feminists to just stomp on all of that ya know they’re putting they’re putting women in mental burkas and they’re putting men in in sort of those those codpieces that lock I don’t do Facebook anymore cuz I used to put all this sexy stuff on Facebook really funny sexual jokes in it bits and pieces and they constantly took it down and and then banned me and I so that’s it I mean but the fact that the big organizations I’m inspiring in you know pushing this feminist narrative is just appalling and it’s an actually six ante male narrative that’s what it is yeah yeah it is and I mean what what frustrates me the most is you know as as a men’s rights advocate when I speak up I’m accused of you know contributing to a gender war and it’s like the these women declared war on men 170 years ago you know during the the Seneca Falls conference right um that that was their opening volley in this war and they have waged this war for a hundred and seventy years and now finally men are like picking up their rifles and you’re gonna say oh how dare you attack women how dare you you know turn this into a gender war like know that that’s when you have one one group of people constantly attacking another group of people when that other group of people finally gets tired of being kicked and and beaten and shot and all of that and then they defend themselves they’re not the ones who are the aggressors and add the women who have watched this happen to men who say and after that we’re sick of men being attacked we’re sick of men being put down with single men male sexuality being crushed and crushed and treated as something abhorrent and don’t hassle danger pathological yeah yeah and we like sexy men in our lives and we don’t want them to be made extinct and we have to stand up for them into that’s part of this story you know what I think women need to get a grip right you know like not every not every sexual encounter that you weren’t like breaking out your pom-poms and do in a chair and begging for it right not every sexual encounter like that is a traumatizing event like I mean women I have had sex some of it on very brief or very casual acquaintance you know I’ve had sex when disappointing sex that meant more to me than it meant to him sex that meant more to him that it meant to me sex that didn’t end in the relationship that I was hoping for you know sex that I had when I was bored that turned out to be at least as boring as being bored except a lot more work you know sex that that I was guilted into or you know talked into because you know okay it’s been a while and you know what about just dying of thirst here charity six six because he’s had a hard day and I want to make him feel good sex you know that to show I actually love this man and even though I don’t really feel like it I know I’ll get into the mood when we get started I mean there were a lot of good reasons to have sex other than your own desire even if you know even if you don’t get into the mood right how hard is it to suck a dick it’s like five minutes of your time compared to cooking a three-course meal house clean compared to all the ridiculous things women do to try to please women sex it and that alone I mean sucking a dick but just lying there how hard is that yeah you just lie there and like take turns with him jerking it like it’s you know you just like sort of tag him off right okay my turn yeah you little and then he tags you off and he does I mean once you get into it if you could get your head around the fact that once you get over this thing of I’m too tired I’ve got the mood then most I think you lots of women could really enjoy it that’s something we’ve just lost oh yeah once it’s rolling along right oh and you you find yourself in the mood when fifteen minutes ago you were like oh yeah no this doesn’t happen and essentially even even if you don’t I mean like I yes I I agree women should actually try to relearn that but I think that women should also learn that that their bodies are not so sacred right that mundane sex is you know is some kind of affront to a woman’s dignity that that like them sex is a mundane part of life or it used to be it used to be and now it’s a part of a negotiation yeah you know you do things for him that you don’t really enjoy your cooked meatballs when he doesn’t listen you know you don’t like meatballs but he loves them you do he does lots of [ __ ] for you he climbs up at the gutters and gets and gets the leaves out of them and whatever all that stuff no baby he vacuum so baby he does you know he does that we do stuff for each other yeah why is sex so different and so precious and so now peculiar and it comes to everyday negotiations in life and and that’s being another one of the big feminist achievements yeah two-step sex aside as something you can’t have reasonable give-and-take on yeah and ordinary couple normal happy couples do still do that and they take notice of the feminist narrative or the voice of influencing young women oh yeah no I mean like one of my favorite bosses of all time we used to call her Shirley the Nazi and she because she was very very very very tough but excruciating Lee fair but she she told me once when we were sitting folding napkins or something like that and she told me that you know her mother had given her you know her Catholic mother with eleven children had given her you know the best advice about marriage that that you could give anybody oh my god no no that you could give anybody and it was essentially no matter what never turn your husband out of his own bed right and that was the primary that was the number one rule no matter what never turn your husband out of his own bed um and and she said that that that rule among the others has been the one that serves her the best in her marriage it’s just absolutely and and it doesn’t mean you have to have sex them right but this whole idea of you know you’re going to go sleep on the couch because I’m angry at you you know like oh no it’s not even that I tell you what the amazing thing you know I did this my project involved couples keeping Diaries about the whole like negotiating the sex supply amazing thing about lots and lots of young couples young parents is mother and the baby sleeping the Barrett or bed and dad sleeps in the children’s beds it’s happening across the board it’s madness this idea that if the child has a nightmare the child comes into the bed and dad gets turfed out it’s extraordinary thing and that’s part of the obsessive parenting that’s going on that I never I never had a problem with my kids coming in and climbing in the bed when I had a nightmare and my daughter you know while I was still breastfeeding her I we didn’t really have a bed for her and so she slept on a on a little mattress right we had a low futon so she slept on this little mattress right next to the bed so when she woke up and wanted to eat I could just pull her into the bed yeah and and then put her back down and I it never involved kicking but that is good oh there are lots of men sleeping down the corridor sleeping in a broom cupboard sleeping and it’s all part of the same story and and you know parenting being used as a one more excuse for not having sex yeah yeah I know good reasons why mothers are tired whether you know it’s a tough time very often it’s very stressful time but to you you know it is becoming a convenient excuse yeah for years for years for women to say I’m too tired I’m not interested it’s not going to happen and very tough on me because it’s like how could they possibly argue with that yeah I think this is a really important part of this whole broader discussion the fact that lots of women don’t want sex and that’s the trouble single women tend to retain a sexual interest but in relationships men women are much more likely to go off sex and go for long periods without any sexual interest and that is a really dangerous thing for our society because it it drives the anti-sex campaign women hate the idea of sex they hate them in approach them for sex in their marriages and they see it all as you know manifestation of everything they hate about being in a situation of having a bad constantly coming onto them and that’s kind of the whole story well I think I think too like that’s a symptom of that’s a symptom of stymied hypergamy in some ways right women are attracted to men who are at least have at least as high status as they do right that’s what turns them on if a man has higher status in them right women are attracted to power their track social status in men they want a man who’s just a little bit above them or more and that that gets them going right but the moment that they marry because we’ve changed the rules of marriage and divorce to give women the upper hand in every single situation I think women instinctively realized at the moment that they actually lock a man into a marriage he’s now of lower status than her just by do you see how the Ola cop she has all the cars just by default so and so I think that that kills her attraction to him Yeah right and so like it’s like we’re doing we’re orchestrating a system that will in every single way possible destroy a woman’s sexual desire for her the spouse that she married for the man that she marries because the moment that he marries her he is now lower status than she is in a number of ways legally and socially and you know like all of these ways that she has power over him and I don’t think most women want to have that kind of I think maybe consciously they think they want that but I don’t think that women actually in their subconscious and their limbic system and and all of their wetware I don’t think they enjoy that I don’t think joy a man that they can boss around and push around and tab and who has the grovel for sex and ask consent for sex yeah well since when has I never shown up in women’s sexual fantasies oh you know it’s thinking about Nancy Friday you know she if you look back to the sort of sexual revolution and early feminists in the second wave were you know there’s a lot of positive talk about sexuality and Nancy Friday was this author who wrote a book about my secret garden about women’s sexual fantasy gathering together women’s sexual fantasies which were for bodice-ripping you know men taking us men raping us men doing things to us yeah and that has all I mean look at look at Fifty Shades of Grey when that has been tired of women’s sexual makeup for a long long time how does that work in a marriage where a man is having to grovel and crawl to her where she you know holds all the reigns yeah we’re here no entitlement under any legal or social rules of how marriage works anymore he has no legal and he has no entitlement sex whatsoever he has no entitled he isn’t not even entitled to ask her repeatedly for sex because then he’s abusing her you know like this is absolutely you know and and if she gives in women’s sexual fantasies now which is really yes half a century later we’d find the same stuff there there there are women right which of course is the Fifty Shades thing yes we’d find lots of women still what dream of the man who takes them Nancy Friday actually she wrote 20 years after that I think she wrote another book called women on top yeah she she said that some of the fantasies seem to become much more rare they became rarities one of them being you know sort of that I’m gonna say this it’s not probably gonna get dinged by YouTube if anybody actually listens to this video but there were bestiality fantasies usually in having dogs in pairs book my secret garden lots of them horses yeah and so I those tended to like go out the window when women no longer had to sort of feel ashamed of enjoying sex with a man it was like now I can replace that dog or that horse who will never be able to tell anybody what I did you know with an actual human being so I mean that seemed to be one change over time but there were still I mean so many of the fantasies involve domination of you know like that well being with a dominant man being with a man who is going to who is is willing to take what he wants and and get you excited so excited that you want him to take it right yeah so and all of this is just dying it’s just dying and it’s so freakin sad and relations between men and women are screwed oh okay I don’t I don’t think despair what’s gonna happen well we’ll see birth really going down and you know women will keep going up and women will have you we’ll go the sensible men will go their own way they’re even selected yeah why would they why would they take the risk yeah agreed absolutely and on that dismal note we better stop yeah we’re about an hour [Music] .
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0.52 it&;s very encouraging I think to see
0.52 more prominent people speaking out yes
0.52 even even after watching other people be
0.52 torn to pieces for doing so yeah I know
0.52 Bangladesh waters has bought in which is
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0.52 finding more people saying come on it
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0.52 you dare mix a lot you know you&;d what
0.52 you would have to segregate them cuz
0.52 they&;re dangerous to the men in your
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0.52 standards and that&;s because there are
0.52 not enough other employees to subsidize
0.52 women when they go on maternity leave
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0.52 this Christmas party and these guys are
0.52 like they are hardcore like foul-mouthed
0.52 dirty you know and just body and banter
0.52 and I&;m standing in an office I like all
0.52 of you all their girlfriends and wives
0.52 were there right so I&;m supposed to be
0.52 over with the women and and instead I&;m
0.52 standing in this office and we&;re just
0.52 we&;re saying the most outrageous things
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0.52 laughing it like cuz it was that is that
0.52 is where I&;m comfortable is is in that
0.52 atmosphere and that atmosphere is
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0.52 because they&;re like am I allowed to
0.52 actually
0.52 talk this way in front of a woman yeah
0.52 but you know like over time they&;ve
0.52 gotten used to me and they know how to
0.52 take me now and they know I&;m not gonna
0.52 be offended by anything that comes out
0.52 of their mouths I mean and some of the
0.52 things that they do I was giving one of
0.52 my guys co-workers [ __ ] because he sends
0.52 he&;s he sends him things gifts and memes
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0.52 on on over the phone that are absolutely
0.52 you know some of them it&;s like and then
0.52 my guy will show me Chris just sent me
0.52 this right and I&;m like oh god why would
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0.52 all I&;m gonna see right yeah and and
0.52 it&;s like so I mean but it&;s like they
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0.52 I&;m comfortable with that I&;m happy with
0.52 that like I love that kind of thing um
0.52 and that&;s the point there are women who
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0.52 acknowledged in any shape or form and
0.52 we&;re these damaged neurotic
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0.52 that when we&;re together in in
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0.52 that&;s what it is
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0.52 kicked and and beaten and shot and all
0.52 of that and then they defend themselves
0.52 they&;re not the ones who are the
0.52 aggressors and add the women who have
0.52 watched this happen to men who say and
0.52 after that we&;re sick of men being
0.52 attacked we&;re sick of men being put
0.52 down with single men male sexuality
0.52 being crushed and crushed and treated as
0.52 something abhorrent and
0.52 don&;t hassle danger pathological yeah
0.52 yeah and we like sexy men in our lives
0.52 and we don&;t want them to be made
0.52 extinct and we have to stand up for them
0.52 into that&;s part of this story you know
0.52 what I think women need to get a grip
0.52 right you know like not every not every
0.52 sexual encounter that you weren&;t like
0.52 breaking out your pom-poms and do in a
0.52 chair and begging for it right not every
0.52 sexual encounter like that is a
0.52 traumatizing event like I mean women I
0.52 have had sex some of it on very brief or
0.52 very casual acquaintance you know I&;ve
0.52 had sex when disappointing sex that
0.52 meant more to me than it meant to him
0.52 sex that meant more to him that it meant
0.52 to me sex that didn&;t end in the
0.52 relationship that I was hoping for you
0.52 know sex that I had when I was bored
0.52 that turned out to be at least as boring
0.52 as being bored except a lot more work
0.52 you know sex that that I was guilted
0.52 into or you know talked into because you
0.52 know okay it&;s been a while and you know
0.52 what about just dying of thirst here
0.52 charity six six because he&;s had a hard
0.52 day and I want to make him feel good sex
0.52 you know that to show I actually love
0.52 this man and even though I don&;t really
0.52 feel like it I know I&;ll get into the
0.52 mood when we get started I mean there
0.52 were a lot of good reasons to have sex
0.52 other than your own desire even if you
0.52 know even if you don&;t get into the mood
0.52 right how hard is it to suck a dick it&;s
0.52 like five minutes of your time
0.52 compared to cooking a three-course meal
0.52 house clean compared to all the
0.52 ridiculous things women do to try to
0.52 please women sex it and that alone I
0.52 mean sucking a dick but just lying there
0.52 how hard is that
0.52 yeah you just lie there and like take
0.52 turns with him jerking it like it&;s you
0.52 know you just like sort of tag him off
0.52 right okay my turn yeah you little and
0.52 then he tags you off and he does I mean
0.52 once you get into it if you could get
0.52 your head around
0.52 the fact that once you get over this
0.52 thing of I&;m too tired I&;ve got the mood
0.52 then most I think you lots of women
0.52 could really enjoy it that&;s something
0.52 we&;ve just lost
0.52 oh yeah once it&;s rolling along right oh
0.52 and you you find yourself in the mood
0.52 when fifteen minutes ago you were like
0.52 oh yeah no this doesn&;t happen and
0.52 essentially even even if you don&;t I
0.52 mean like I yes I I agree women should
0.52 actually try to relearn that but I think
0.52 that women should also learn that that
0.52 their bodies are not so sacred right
0.52 that mundane sex is you know is some
0.52 kind of affront to a woman&;s dignity
0.52 that that like them sex is a mundane
0.52 part of life or it used to be it used to
0.52 be and now it&;s a part of a negotiation
0.52 yeah you know you do things for him that
0.52 you don&;t really enjoy your cooked
0.52 meatballs when he doesn&;t listen you
0.52 know you don&;t like meatballs but he
0.52 loves them you do he does lots of [ __ ]
0.52 for you he climbs up at the gutters and
0.52 gets and gets the leaves out of them and
0.52 whatever all that stuff no baby he
0.52 vacuum so baby he does you know he does
0.52 that we do stuff for each other yeah why
0.52 is sex so different and so precious and
0.52 so now peculiar and it comes to everyday
0.52 negotiations in life and and that&;s
0.52 being another one of the big feminist
0.52 achievements yeah two-step sex aside as
0.52 something you can&;t have reasonable
0.52 give-and-take on yeah and ordinary
0.52 couple normal happy couples do still do
0.52 that and they take notice of the
0.52 feminist narrative or the voice of
0.52 influencing young women oh yeah no I
0.52 mean like one of my favorite bosses of
0.52 all time we used to call her Shirley the
0.52 Nazi and she because she was very very
0.52 very very tough but excruciating Lee
0.52 fair but she she told me once when we
0.52 were sitting folding napkins or
0.52 something like that
0.52 and she told me that you know her mother
0.52 had given her you know her Catholic
0.52 mother with eleven children had given
0.52 her you know the best advice about
0.52 marriage that that you could give
0.52 anybody oh my god no no that you could
0.52 give anybody and it was essentially no
0.52 matter what never turn your husband out
0.52 of his own bed right and that was the
0.52 primary that was the number one rule no
0.52 matter what never turn your husband out
0.52 of his own bed um and and she said that
0.52 that that rule among the others has been
0.52 the one that serves her the best in her
0.52 marriage
0.52 it&;s just absolutely and and it doesn&;t
0.52 mean you have to have sex them right but
0.52 this whole idea of you know you&;re going
0.52 to go sleep on the couch because I&;m
0.52 angry at you you know like oh no it&;s
0.52 not even that I tell you what the
0.52 amazing thing you know I did this my
0.52 project involved couples keeping Diaries
0.52 about the whole like negotiating the sex
0.52 supply amazing thing about lots and lots
0.52 of young couples young parents is mother
0.52 and the baby sleeping the Barrett or bed
0.52 and dad sleeps in the children&;s beds
0.52 it&;s happening across the board it&;s
0.52 madness this idea that if the child has
0.52 a nightmare the child comes into the bed
0.52 and dad gets turfed out it&;s
0.52 extraordinary thing and that&;s part of
0.52 the obsessive parenting that&;s going on
0.52 that I never I never had a problem with
0.52 my kids coming in and climbing in the
0.52 bed when I had a nightmare and my
0.52 daughter you know while I was still
0.52 breastfeeding her I we didn&;t really
0.52 have a bed for her and so she slept on a
0.52 on a little mattress right we had a low
0.52 futon so she slept on this little
0.52 mattress right next to the bed so when
0.52 she woke up and wanted to eat I could
0.52 just pull her into the bed yeah and and
0.52 then put her back down and I it never
0.52 involved kicking but that is good
0.52 oh there are lots of men sleeping down
0.52 the corridor sleeping in a broom
0.52 cupboard sleeping and it&;s all part of
0.52 the same story and and you know
0.52 parenting being used as a one more
0.52 excuse for not having sex yeah yeah I
0.52 know good reasons why mothers are tired
0.52 whether you know it&;s a tough time very
0.52 often it&;s very stressful time but to
0.52 you you know it is becoming a convenient
0.52 excuse yeah for years for years for
0.52 women to say I&;m too tired I&;m not
0.52 interested it&;s not going to happen and
0.52 very tough on me because it&;s like how
0.52 could they possibly argue with that yeah
0.52 I think this is a really important part
0.52 of this whole broader discussion the
0.52 fact that lots of women don&;t want sex
0.52 and that&;s the trouble
0.52 single women tend to retain a sexual
0.52 interest but in relationships men women
0.52 are much more likely to go off sex and
0.52 go for long periods without any sexual
0.52 interest and that is a really dangerous
0.52 thing for our society because it it
0.52 drives the anti-sex campaign women hate
0.52 the idea of sex they hate them in
0.52 approach them for sex in their marriages
0.52 and they see it all as you know
0.52 manifestation of everything they hate
0.52 about being in a situation of having a
0.52 bad constantly coming onto them and
0.52 that&;s kind of the whole story well I
0.52 think I think too like that&;s a symptom
0.52 of that&;s a symptom of stymied hypergamy
0.52 in some ways right women are attracted
0.52 to men who are at least have at least as
0.52 high status as they do right that&;s what
0.52 turns them on if a man has higher status
0.52 in them right women are attracted to
0.52 power their track social status in men
0.52 they want a man who&;s just a little bit
0.52 above them or more and that that gets
0.52 them going right but the moment that
0.52 they marry because we&;ve changed the
0.52 rules of marriage and divorce to give
0.52 women the upper hand in every single
0.52 situation I think women instinctively
0.52 realized at the moment that they
0.52 actually lock a man into a marriage he&;s
0.52 now of lower status than her
0.52 just by do you see how the Ola cop she
0.52 has all the cars just by default so and
0.52 so I think that that kills her
0.52 attraction to him Yeah right and so like
0.52 it&;s like we&;re doing we&;re
0.52 orchestrating a system that will in
0.52 every single way possible destroy a
0.52 woman&;s sexual desire for her the spouse
0.52 that she married for the man that she
0.52 marries because the moment that he
0.52 marries her he is now lower status than
0.52 she is in a number of ways legally and
0.52 socially and you know like all of these
0.52 ways that she has power over him and I
0.52 don&;t think most women want to have that
0.52 kind of I think maybe consciously they
0.52 think they want that but I don&;t think
0.52 that women actually in their
0.52 subconscious and their limbic system and
0.52 and all of their wetware I don&;t think
0.52 they enjoy that I don&;t think joy a man
0.52 that they can boss around and push
0.52 around and tab and who has the grovel
0.52 for sex and ask consent for sex yeah
0.52 well since when has I never shown up in
0.52 women&;s sexual fantasies oh you know
0.52 it&;s thinking about Nancy Friday you
0.52 know she if you look back to the sort of
0.52 sexual revolution and early feminists in
0.52 the second wave were you know there&;s a
0.52 lot of positive talk about sexuality and
0.52 Nancy Friday was this author who wrote a
0.52 book about my secret garden about
0.52 women&;s sexual fantasy gathering
0.52 together women&;s sexual fantasies which
0.52 were for bodice-ripping you know men
0.52 taking us men raping us men doing things
0.52 to us
0.52 yeah and that has all I mean look at
0.52 look at Fifty Shades of Grey
0.52 when that has been tired of women&;s
0.52 sexual makeup for a long long time how
0.52 does that work in a marriage where a man
0.52 is having to grovel and crawl to her
0.52 where she you know holds all the reigns
0.52 yeah we&;re here no entitlement under any
0.52 legal or social rules of how marriage
0.52 works anymore he has no legal and he has
0.52 no entitlement sex whatsoever he has no
0.52 entitled he isn&;t not even entitled to
0.52 ask her repeatedly for sex because then
0.52 he&;s abusing her you know like this is
0.52 absolutely
0.52 you know and and if she gives in women&;s
0.52 sexual fantasies now which is really yes
0.52 half a century later we&;d find the same
0.52 stuff there there there are women right
0.52 which of course is the Fifty Shades
0.52 thing yes we&;d find lots of women still
0.52 what dream of the man who takes them
0.52 Nancy Friday actually she wrote 20 years
0.52 after that I think she wrote another
0.52 book called women on top yeah she she
0.52 said that some of the fantasies seem to
0.52 become much more rare
0.52 they became rarities one of them being
0.52 you know sort of that I&;m gonna say this
0.52 it&;s not probably gonna get dinged by
0.52 YouTube if anybody actually listens to
0.52 this video but there were bestiality
0.52 fantasies usually in having dogs in
0.52 pairs book my secret garden lots of them
0.52 horses yeah and so I those tended to
0.52 like go out the window when women no
0.52 longer had to sort of feel ashamed of
0.52 enjoying sex with a man it was like now
0.52 I can replace that dog or that horse who
0.52 will never be able to tell anybody what
0.52 I did you know with an actual human
0.52 being so I mean that seemed to be one
0.52 change over time but there were still I
0.52 mean so many of the fantasies involve
0.52 domination of you know like that well
0.52 being with a dominant man being with a
0.52 man who is going to who is is willing to
0.52 take what he wants and and get you
0.52 excited so excited that you want him to
0.52 take it right yeah so and all of this is
0.52 just dying it&;s just dying and it&;s so
0.52 freakin sad and relations between men
0.52 and women are screwed oh okay I don&;t I
0.52 don&;t think despair what&;s gonna happen
0.52 well we&;ll see birth really going down
0.52 and you know women will keep going up
0.52 and women will have you
0.52 we&;ll go the sensible men will go their
0.52 own way they&;re even selected yeah why
0.52 would they why would they take the risk
0.52 yeah agreed
0.52 absolutely and on that dismal note we
0.52 better stop yeah we&;re about an hour
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