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Concevoir un plan concret afin de diminuer les habitudes compulsives
Énoncer des objectifs réalisables et bien définis
Le succès du sevrage passe par des objectifs clairs, par exemple réduire le temps passé devant des contenus pornographiques. Cette démarche doit également comprendre une réflexion sur les origines de la dépendance et les avantages durables de l’arrêt.
Mettre en place un espace qui favorise la régénération
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Cultiver des habitudes enrichissantes, comme la méditation ou le yoga, soutient l’équilibre entre le corps et l’esprit et diminue les pulsions irréfléchies
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L’intimité vraie et partagée aide à vivre une sexualité plus naturelle, loin de l’influence des contenus pornographiques
Adopter une approche éthique de la sexualité
Opter pour une sexualité éthique améliore la qualité des relations et assure un épanouissement mutuel L’arrêt de la pornographie représente un défi complexe qui nécessite de la conscience, des stratégies et un accompagnement. En identifiant les causes profondes et en s’engageant dans un processus structuré, il est possible de se réapproprier sa vie et de découvrir une sexualité plus épanouie. L’aide extérieure, comme celle des thérapeutes, est souvent nécessaire pour un rétablissement durable des ressources sont à votre portée on peut citer la méthode dechasteté.fr.
Identifier les facteurs de l’addiction au porno
Explorer les dynamiques mentales sous-jacentes
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Cerner les signes révélateurs d’addiction
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Étudier les effets à long terme de la pornographie sur le mode de vie
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Découvrir les options de soutien disponibles
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Chercher l’aide d’un professionnel du bien-être mental
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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: So, one of the big things that I think is a is a huge problem that’s about to happen in the world is um uh pornography addiction, right? I think it’s I believe it’s humongous. I believe it’s bigger than alcoholism. I believe it’s like the wave of it that we’re we’re starting to see like people really suffering from it. I think it’s one of the reasons why there’s a lot of divorce. um what do you see like neuroscientifically uh about how we can how people can start to manage that and then even just what you just talked about about dopamine it’s like I think it’s helping people realize with that that it’s like such a hole that you’re getting into no uh no whatever that thing is called no pun intended um how does that how can people start to cut that off for themselves is there anything they can do manage like or do they have to get help if they believe that they’re suffering from like pornography or uh sexual uh addiction. Yeah. Uh super important questions. I’m so glad you’re raising this because you know it’s it’s interesting if you look at the research on pornography and sexual behavior generally, right? What you’ll find mostly in the academic studies of those areas is kind of an attempt to to normalize a lot of behavior. There are reasons for that. some pseudopolitical, some um just kind of the way those studies were done for a long time. But it’s really important to emphasize that it takes a while for science to catch up to culture. Okay. It takes a while for science to catch up to culture. Yeah. It takes and the reason is not because scientists are lazy or they’re uninterested. Is that doing science well takes a long time. Look, I’ve run studies in my lab on animals, on humans, clinical trials. takes a long time like three four years sometimes to get a really good study done. Meanwhile, life is happening and in the last in the last 5 years especially, there’s been an exponential growth of the amount of pornography available online, the different formats, right? only fans. Um you you know all the different sites that people can go to free paid AI and within each of those there’s also been a huge amplification of the of what’s called like highintensity porn. What’s high-intensity porn? It’s more than two people. It’s um BDSM. Now BDSM is its own discussion that maybe we could talk about at some point you know just separately about this merge of pain and pleasure that the reason I’ll just the the punchline um is that dopamine is also increased by what we call the sessation of pain. When pain starts and then stops you get an amplified dopamine surge. So, a lot of people are watching or engaging in what we would call violent porn, right? And we’re as primate species, humans, we have an empathy. So, when people are watching pornography, they’re not obviously not experiencing the same things exactly those people are doing and experiencing, but they’re tuning into it, right? They’re getting to it. And we can only speculate as to what they’re doing to themselves, right? Typically, when we’re talking about porn, let’s just be direct, we’re also talking about masturbation, right? Typically, when we’re talking about watching video porn, sometimes it’s women. Most often it’s men by a huge majority. Oh, yeah. The men are the one watching it. Yeah. Although, you know, years ago, I had a I had a girlfriend, a woman I was dating very seriously, and and she confessed to me that prior to our relationship, she had developed a porn compulsion. It wasn’t an addiction. Um, you know, an addiction again is a progressive narrowing of the things that bring you pleasure. it hadn’t taken her to the point where it was destructive, but she would had the wisdom to cut herself off from it early on. Okay? So, it does happen with women, but it’s much more frequent with men. So, here’s the thing. We can think of pornography now as like the methamphetamine of pornography compared to the pornography of, you know, we always hear about, oh, you know, like when I was growing up, drawing a Playboy or or you know that the thing when I was a kid, like I’ll confess this for didn’t know I was going to do a confession, but they had those like um sex education books where they were like sketch drawings in pencil. Oh yeah, bring them up. And I, you know, when I was, you know, probably, you know, 14, 13, I was like, « This is awesome. » Yeah. You know, this was awesome. But it was about, you know, teaching you basically about sex. It was teaching you about body parts. And that was, you know, for sure pencil drawings. I can’t believe we’re looking this up. No, it’s interesting because I think a lot of people probably if you do uh pencil drawings, uh, who knows what kind of freaky stuff’s going to jump up here. No, we have a blocker on, I’m pretty sure. Yeah. There we go. There we go. So, yeah. Yeah. Had some see human loving. This is very different than today’s porn. sex and h I love how they used to call it human loving human. That’s nice though. There’s something at least it makes more sense. It puts even your head into something, you know, instead of like uh Britney’s butt world or whatever, you know, which takes it to a whole different deal. And there was no discussion whatsoever of elements of pain or BDSM or power play. There you go. You know. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, you know, God for a heterosexual young male, the fact that they put her naked facing us as opposed to the guy on the other side, you’re like, « Okay, cool. » But you know the other thing about pornography is that it in a young brain this this is very important and it relates to everything we’re talking about today from about age 0 to 25 your brain is incredibly plastic it’s modified by experience just by being in those experience. When you say plastic you mean it’s more like it’s not solid yet? That’s right. You can literally wire neurons plasticity. You can wire neurons to other neurons very readily. I mean this was um known for a long time but it was really formalized by my scientific great-grandparents. David Hubel and Torston Weasel, they won a Nobel Prize for showing that if you take a a cat, a monkey or a kid and you close one eyelid for just a few hours each day, the brain becomes blind to visual input through that eye once you open the eye up unless you do something else like close the other eye in order to reverse that plasticity. However, if today I just said, yeah, that’s how fast and permanent it is unless you do something to reverse it. But if I did that same thing to you now or me now, there’d be no brain change. You close your eye, obviously you can’t see through a closed eye. Pop open the eyelid later, you see just fine. So we know that from a until about age 25, the brain just modifies itself based on experience. So if you’re doing cocaine, amphetamine, or let’s just stay with this example, you’re watching highintensity violent porn with more than two people, right? You know, we forget that every time you add another person, you it’s two women and one guy or it’s, you know, what’s this woman on X? I mean, I have to say it makes it gives me an aversive response, which I think is the healthy response every time she announces. I think she’s like sleeping with a hundred then a thousand people. And listen, she’s obviously in control of her own Western Conference right now. I think I just saw the other day. I don’t know what Barbara uh is Barbara Blue. Bonnie Blue. Body Blue. Yeah, Bonnie. I mean, this is like methamphetamine with heroin and you know what? You get the picture. It’s starting to layer in all these different things. And so the young, you think about the young male brain in particular, young female brain watching this stuff and it’s not just setting a behavioral expectation because we always hear about that, you know, they they think sex is like that and it’s not. It’s setting this incredibly high threshold for what they consider stimulating. Not just stimulating sexually, but stimulating mentally. Oh yeah. And I mean I mean it’s crazy. It’s like, you know, listen, I like playing cards every once in a while. So you go play card game with your friends. be like the first time you play cards, you got a million bucks, you know, you’re or you’re back there in the high state. You’re in like the Dana White room, right? Like I know like when I see sometimes his gambling hands, right? He he’s, you know, but he can afford to play, right? And he also knows where that fits into the rest of his life. But you think about a a kid, you know, you have a chance to win a, you know, a million dollars. Actually, there’s this scene in that movie uh that show, remember Succession? Yes. A show that it’s all about dopamine. this family of rich brats who are completely corrupt. Everything is about more, more, more. Dopamine has been called in a in a book, I forget the author, the molecule of more. It’s all about wanting more. And there’s this dreadfully sad scene where they go out to play, I think it was like a baseball game or something, and they bring their uh their garden help and they take the kid and they say, « Hey, if you can hit a home run, these people’s kids, people are clearly, and they say, « If you hit a home run, you have a million dollars. » And you see the anticipation. This would transform these kids and their parents’ life. And then he doesn’t get the million dollars. And they give him like some watch that’s probably worth $25,000. This is dopamine reward prediction error in a in a nutshell. Had they given him the watch, the family probably would have been pretty thrilled. They could sell it. They could use it. Had they not been involved in the game, their dopamine is the same as when they go home at night. But they had a chance at a million dollars. And when they didn’t get that, it drops them below baseline. And then you see the kid that evening like sitting around his apartment just completely despondent with the watch sitting there as if it was worth nothing. That’s dopamine. And when you think about pornography, that’s what young people are being exposed to. So therefore, sexual experiences not only are quite different. Remember, pornography is about obviously people are getting aroused by watching other people have sex. Um, you know, I don’t know what kind of sex people are having out there, but in my experience, you know, the whole the whole business of sex and learning how to have great sex is about learning to be in the in the experience with somebody. And it’s a communication. It’s an ongoing communication. And it’s about being in the experience, being present, not watching someone else have sex. Oh, yeah. I was thinking the other day, watching some other dude like have sex with a woman, it’s kind of I don’t even know if it’s homoerotic. I don’t know what it is. It’s definitely when you really when you take a step back from it, it’s a little bizarre. It’s definitely intrusive, right? But for surely it alters the way that you think about things. I mean, I know in my own life, I got exposed to pornography real early. I would bike across town to get a little look at some pornos. Perfectly normal behavior for a young male. Pretty normal. I was breaking into houses to freaking, you know, get That’s I had friends like you growing up. Where did you grow up? Uh Louisiana. I had friends growing up. I mean, in the in South South Bay, Palo Alto was pretty tame, but when we when I started getting into the skateboard thing. Oh, for sure. You know, we drew from kids from all over. And listen, I’m very grateful for that early exposure. Oh, yeah. Easy to jerk off to if you got some good graffiti. Oh, no. I meant early exposure to kids that from all walks of life, but I knew kids like you breaking into houses. Oh, dude. Yeah, I remember. Yeah. It would be crazy with like, you know, Yeah. Just like breaking in just like Yeah. We made some poor choices. .
Déroulement de la vidéo:
0.16 So, one of the big things that I think
2.159 is a is a huge problem that’s about to
4.799 happen in the world is
6.919 um uh pornography addiction, right? I
10.08 think it’s I believe it’s humongous. I
11.84 believe it’s bigger than alcoholism. I
13.2 believe it’s like the wave of it that
15.679 we’re we’re starting to see like people
17.52 really suffering from it. I think it’s
18.8 one of the reasons why there’s a lot of
20.4 divorce.
22.519 um what do you see like
24.56 neuroscientifically
26.88 uh about how we can how people can start
29.84 to manage that and then even just what
31.679 you just talked about about dopamine
33.2 it’s like I think it’s helping people
35.44 realize with that that it’s like such a
37.12 hole that you’re getting into no uh no
41.36 whatever that thing is called no pun
43.12 intended um how does that how can people
46.48 start to cut that off for themselves is
48.32 there anything they can do manage like
50.16 or do they have to get help if they
51.92 believe that they’re suffering from like
53.36 pornography or uh sexual uh addiction.
56.879 Yeah. Uh super important questions. I’m
59.84 so glad you’re raising this because you
62.0 know it’s it’s interesting if you look
63.84 at the research on pornography and
66.479 sexual behavior generally, right? What
69.76 you’ll find mostly in the academic
72.159 studies of those areas is kind of an
74.96 attempt to to normalize a lot of
77.159 behavior. There are reasons for that.
79.28 some pseudopolitical, some um just kind
82.08 of the way those studies were done for a
83.6 long time. But it’s really important to
85.68 emphasize that it takes a while for
87.84 science to catch up to culture. Okay. It
90.479 takes a while for science to catch up to
91.92 culture. Yeah. It takes and the reason
93.36 is not because scientists are lazy or
95.2 they’re uninterested. Is that doing
96.72 science well takes a long time. Look,
99.36 I’ve run studies in my lab on animals,
101.759 on humans, clinical trials. takes a long
103.84 time like three four years
106.119 sometimes to get a really good study
108.399 done. Meanwhile, life is happening and
111.52 in the last in the last 5 years
114.32 especially, there’s been an exponential
116.799 growth of the amount of pornography
118.719 available online, the different formats,
120.64 right? only fans. Um you you know all
123.759 the different sites that people can go
125.28 to free paid AI and within each of those
129.84 there’s also been a huge amplification
131.44 of the of what’s called like
132.8 highintensity porn. What’s
133.92 high-intensity porn? It’s more than two
135.76 people. It’s um BDSM. Now BDSM is its
139.599 own discussion that maybe we could talk
141.2 about at some point you know just
142.48 separately about this merge of pain and
144.16 pleasure that the reason I’ll just the
147.12 the punchline um is that dopamine is
150.8 also increased by what we call the
153.36 sessation of pain. When pain starts and
155.44 then stops you get an amplified dopamine
157.92 surge. So, a lot of people are watching
160.56 or engaging in what we would call
162.959 violent porn, right? And we’re as
165.84 primate species, humans, we have an
168.0 empathy. So, when people are watching
169.84 pornography, they’re not obviously not
171.44 experiencing the same things exactly
173.12 those people are doing and experiencing,
175.2 but they’re tuning into it, right?
177.04 They’re getting to it. And we can only
178.72 speculate as to what they’re doing to
179.92 themselves, right? Typically, when we’re
181.44 talking about porn, let’s just be
182.48 direct, we’re also talking about
183.599 masturbation, right? Typically, when
185.84 we’re talking about watching video porn,
188.0 sometimes it’s women. Most often it’s
190.08 men by a huge majority. Oh, yeah. The
192.959 men are the one watching it. Yeah.
194.159 Although, you know, years ago, I had a I
195.92 had a girlfriend, a woman I was dating
197.2 very seriously, and and she confessed to
199.68 me that prior to our relationship, she
201.44 had developed a porn compulsion. It
203.76 wasn’t an addiction. Um, you know, an
205.92 addiction again is a progressive
207.2 narrowing of the things that bring you
208.56 pleasure. it hadn’t taken her to the
210.64 point where it was destructive, but she
212.0 would had the wisdom to cut herself off
214.08 from it early on. Okay? So, it does
216.48 happen with women, but it’s much more
217.76 frequent with men. So, here’s the thing.
220.4 We can think of pornography now as like
224.0 the
224.92 methamphetamine of pornography compared
227.28 to the pornography of, you know, we
229.12 always hear about, oh, you know, like
230.08 when I was growing up, drawing a Playboy
231.92 or or you know that the thing when I was
233.76 a kid, like I’ll confess this for didn’t
235.76 know I was going to do a confession, but
237.28 they had those like um sex education
239.12 books where they were like sketch
240.239 drawings in pencil. Oh yeah, bring them
242.0 up. And I, you know, when I was, you
243.92 know, probably, you know, 14, 13, I was
246.159 like, « This is awesome. » Yeah. You know,
248.72 this was awesome. But it was about, you
251.2 know, teaching you basically about sex.
253.84 It was teaching you about body parts.
255.36 And that was, you know, for sure pencil
258.56 drawings. I can’t believe we’re looking
259.759 this up. No, it’s interesting because I
261.199 think a lot of people probably if you do
262.72 uh pencil drawings,
264.44 uh, who knows what kind of freaky
266.639 stuff’s going to jump up here. No, we
268.479 have a blocker on, I’m pretty sure.
270.96 Yeah. There we go. There we go. So,
273.52 yeah. Yeah. Had some see human loving.
276.0 This is very different than today’s
277.199 porn. sex and h I love how they used to
279.36 call it human loving human. That’s nice
281.919 though. There’s something at least it
283.68 makes more sense. It puts even your head
285.759 into something, you know, instead of
287.6 like uh Britney’s butt world or
289.919 whatever, you know, which takes it to a
291.52 whole different deal. And there was no
293.04 discussion whatsoever of elements of
294.56 pain or BDSM or power play. There you
296.639 go. You know. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, you
299.6 know, God for a heterosexual young male,
302.16 the fact that they put her naked facing
304.16 us as opposed to the guy on the other
305.759 side, you’re like, « Okay, cool. » But you
307.44 know the other thing about pornography
309.36 is that it in a young brain this this is
312.4 very important and it relates to
313.919 everything we’re talking about today
315.28 from about age 0 to 25 your brain is
318.56 incredibly plastic it’s modified by
320.72 experience just by being in those
322.479 experience. When you say plastic you
323.759 mean it’s more like it’s not solid yet?
326.16 That’s right. You can literally wire
328.16 neurons plasticity. You can wire neurons
330.0 to other neurons very readily. I mean
331.919 this was um known for a long time but it
334.16 was really formalized by my scientific
335.759 great-grandparents. David Hubel and
337.039 Torston Weasel, they won a Nobel Prize
339.199 for showing that if you take a a cat, a
342.32 monkey or a kid and you close one eyelid
346.08 for just a few hours each day, the brain
349.52 becomes blind to visual input through
351.759 that eye once you open the eye up unless
353.919 you do something else like close the
355.84 other eye in order to reverse that
357.36 plasticity. However, if today I just
359.36 said, yeah, that’s how fast and
361.12 permanent it is unless you do something
362.479 to reverse it. But if I did that same
364.96 thing to you now or me now, there’d be
366.88 no brain change. You close your eye,
368.24 obviously you can’t see through a closed
369.36 eye. Pop open the eyelid later, you see
371.36 just fine. So we know that from a until
374.08 about age 25, the brain just modifies
376.479 itself based on experience. So if you’re
378.88 doing cocaine, amphetamine, or let’s
381.039 just stay with this example, you’re
382.319 watching highintensity violent porn with
385.52 more than two people, right? You know,
387.36 we forget that every time you add
388.72 another person, you it’s two women and
390.16 one guy or it’s, you know, what’s this
392.479 woman on X? I mean, I have to say it
394.319 makes it gives me an aversive response,
397.44 which I think is the healthy response
399.44 every time she announces. I think she’s
401.84 like sleeping with a hundred then a
403.12 thousand people. And listen, she’s
405.199 obviously in control of her own Western
406.96 Conference right now. I think I just saw
408.4 the other day. I don’t know what Barbara
410.0 uh is Barbara Blue. Bonnie Blue. Body
413.039 Blue. Yeah, Bonnie. I mean, this is like
415.919 methamphetamine with heroin and you know
418.0 what? You get the picture. It’s starting
419.599 to layer in all these different things.
422.24 And so the young, you think about the
424.96 young male brain in particular, young
427.12 female brain watching this stuff and
429.44 it’s not just setting a behavioral
430.96 expectation because we always hear about
432.319 that, you know, they they think sex is
433.84 like that and it’s not. It’s setting
436.0 this incredibly high threshold for what
439.039 they consider stimulating. Not just
441.199 stimulating sexually, but stimulating
443.44 mentally. Oh yeah. And I mean I mean
445.039 it’s crazy. It’s like, you know, listen,
447.039 I like playing cards every once in a
448.4 while. So you go play card game with
450.479 your friends. be like the first time you
452.479 play cards, you got a million bucks, you
455.599 know, you’re or you’re back there in the
457.039 high state. You’re in like the Dana
458.479 White room, right? Like I know like when
460.0 I see sometimes his gambling hands,
461.44 right? He he’s, you know, but he can
463.44 afford to play, right? And he also knows
466.479 where that fits into the rest of his
468.08 life. But you think about a a kid, you
470.72 know, you have a chance to win a, you
472.479 know, a million dollars. Actually,
474.4 there’s this scene in that movie uh that
476.479 show, remember Succession? Yes. A show
479.039 that it’s all about dopamine. this
480.879 family of rich brats who are completely
483.44 corrupt. Everything is about more, more,
486.24 more. Dopamine has been called in a in a
488.4 book, I forget the author, the molecule
490.08 of more. It’s all about wanting more.
491.68 And there’s this dreadfully sad scene
494.08 where they go out to play, I think it
495.84 was like a baseball game or something,
497.12 and they bring their uh their garden
499.44 help and they take the kid and they say,
501.36 « Hey, if you can hit a home run, these
503.199 people’s kids, people are clearly, and
505.199 they say, « If you hit a home run, you
506.319 have a million dollars. » And you see the
507.919 anticipation. This would transform these
510.24 kids and their parents’ life. And then
512.32 he doesn’t get the million dollars. And
514.159 they give him like some watch that’s
515.76 probably worth
517.959 $25,000. This is dopamine reward
520.24 prediction error in a in a nutshell. Had
523.519 they given him the watch, the family
525.279 probably would have been pretty
526.24 thrilled. They could sell it. They could
527.44 use it. Had they not been involved in
530.16 the game, their dopamine is the same as
532.24 when they go home at night. But they had
534.48 a chance at a million dollars. And when
537.04 they didn’t get that, it drops them
539.04 below baseline. And then you see the kid
540.8 that evening like sitting around his
542.48 apartment just completely despondent
545.2 with the watch sitting there as if it
546.8 was worth nothing. That’s dopamine. And
549.6 when you think about pornography, that’s
551.36 what young people are being exposed to.
554.24 So therefore, sexual experiences not
556.64 only are quite different. Remember,
558.2 pornography is about obviously people
561.44 are getting aroused by watching other
564.08 people have sex. Um, you know, I don’t
566.08 know what kind of sex people are having
567.36 out there, but in my experience, you
569.2 know, the whole the whole business of
570.64 sex and learning how to have great sex
572.32 is about learning to be in the in the
574.88 experience with somebody. And it’s a
576.399 communication. It’s an ongoing
577.68 communication. And it’s about being in
579.44 the experience, being present, not
581.6 watching someone else have sex. Oh,
583.519 yeah. I was thinking the other day,
585.76 watching some other dude like have sex
588.24 with a woman, it’s kind of I don’t even
590.399 know if it’s homoerotic. I don’t know
592.0 what it is. It’s definitely when you
593.519 really when you take a step back from
595.04 it, it’s a little bizarre. It’s
597.279 definitely intrusive, right? But for
599.6 surely it alters the way that you think
601.279 about things. I mean, I know in my own
602.72 life, I got exposed to pornography real
604.64 early. I would bike across town to get a
606.64 little look at some pornos. Perfectly
608.399 normal behavior for a young male. Pretty
610.24 normal. I was breaking into houses to
611.92 freaking, you know, get That’s I had
614.48 friends like you growing up. Where did
616.0 you grow up? Uh Louisiana. I had friends
618.56 growing up. I mean, in the in South
620.079 South Bay, Palo Alto was pretty tame,
621.519 but when we when I started getting into
622.72 the skateboard thing. Oh, for sure. You
624.399 know, we drew from kids from all over.
625.839 And listen, I’m very grateful for that
627.36 early exposure. Oh, yeah. Easy to jerk
629.44 off to if you got some good graffiti.
630.8 Oh, no. I meant early exposure to kids
632.16 that from all walks of life, but I knew
633.839 kids like you breaking into houses. Oh,
635.279 dude. Yeah, I remember. Yeah. It would
636.72 be crazy with like, you know, Yeah. Just
639.36 like breaking in just like Yeah. We made
641.68 some poor choices.
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